Scripting News: Saturday, September 30, 2023

A little advice about social media from someone who has been on social media since it has existed. You don't have to argue. When someone wants to argue with you, you should block them. There is no good outcome possible from arguing on social media.#

BTW, believe it or not, I have been to Brainerd, which is pretty close to Bemidji, on one of my cross-country podcasting trips in August 2005. #
As I get older things that used to seem like mysteries now seem simple. How many times has someone said they love you when you think hmm I don't think that's really love. How long did it take you to figure it out? At this point I know what love is. If you can be yourself with another person then you can be sure that's love. If you can snuggle up with them and relax, either physically or figuratively, and again, just be yourself, that's love, for sure. But if you have to be a certain way, pretend to be someone you're not, to stay in good stead with the other person, then that isn't love. It's just that simple. If you find yourself blurting out "I love you" without any thought, maybe even surprised yourself, that's love. But love is not a status, not a state of being. It's an act. You could be "in love" one moment and the next, not. That doesn't mean in the next moment after that you won't share love again. It's just that feelings are always in motion. Love is a feeling of freedom to be yourself, or in another way -- to just be. Love is the essence of being you. Nothing elusive about it. You are made of it. #
But we have really bad examples of love relationships in TV and movies and in our families. I hear people say things that I imagine they got from watching a show, where the writers, for dramatic purposes I guess, have the characters say things in the name of love that have nothing to do with it, or often are the opposite, people trying to be something they obviously aren't. I don't think my parents or grandparents shared much love with each other, maybe they had their moments, but they weren't often. My uncle once told me, after my aunt died and he was looking for a new wife to take her place, it was like casting for a movie, that it's betrayal if a person turns out to not be what they appeared to be on the first date. A lot of people think that way. To figure out love, you have to take a step back from culture and families and just be yourself and see who likes you. You just found love. ❤️#
If I were one of the leaders of the IndieWeb movement, I'd lobby for these ideas being added to the charter. #
I want text to flow from my editor to the places I write. #
If I have to use your editor to write on your site, forget it. #
I want to use one editor to write. The one that's wired into the base of my spine. Where I just think of something and somehow it gets from my brain to the screen. #
Every time I have to switch gears because I forgot which editor I'm using, or where I have to go to read and edit something, I lose ideas, or punt on getting the writing right. #
We have too much social media and not enough great reading sites. The reading experience of the web generally sucks. #
Linkblog items for the day.
Maybe chatbots will enable people to flame forever to a robot who will argue with them forever and not care. scripting.com
Free software pioneer Stallman reveals cancer diagnosis. theregister.com
2011: Why I stand up for Stallman scripting.com
According to Bob Sassone Substack is social media. wordpress.com
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